Posted by Anonymous on 2019/04/04 under Life so after multiple fails of trying to find love or at least someone to share things with ive decided to stop trying im just going to go get through the rest of college, get a job, and possibly a nice apartment, after all is said and done i might go back to dating but as of now i don't know because every time i get heartbroken or rejected the pain is so much i just don't do anything so maybe if i don't try then i won't get hurt and might be more productive like i said though i don't know so inputs people maybe?
had the same problem. I been single 10 years now and i hate being around people.I dont advise this, have a break for a month and get back out there dating if thats what you really want.
I never had a boyfriend for years. I was single till I hit the age of 26 then I found the first and the only. I got tired of hearing it takes time or stop looking and you will find someone. Well it was true. I just gave up and one day I had a friend that sad hey you want to date my friend and that was it. So stick with it. Don’t go searching but you will get there in time
The best thing you can do is go on with your everyday life and make sure you’re having fun. Usually, the best things happen when you don’t have a care in the world and you’re focusing on yourself so you’ll get there. Trust me, if you’re afraid you’ll stay single for life youre fooled. It really ain’t that hard to find someone. What truly is hard , is finding someone who gets you and who shares the same interests as you!
Okay. The fact that you are in college says you should be focused on learning, not looking for guys! After all mommy and Daddy are not paying you to be the college whore and having FUN.